Inspired to Reality

Many times when we get angry at something or somebody, it is often is because we lack a perspective or clarity…not the other way around. It is so easy to call someone “stupid” or blame an outside force for a problem. But in all actuality, what do you have control over to change? The other person or yourself? If you focus more what you can do to make the situation acceptable, you will find that your relationships and what some people refer to as “luck” changes for the best.
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Sounds like an absurd question, but I believe people underestimate the effects of happiness in our own lives. Being happy may actually effect what is happening to you in your life, the life of your loved ones and most importantly your own body and the health of people around you.

I am sure each and everyone of have experienced a “slump” in our lives, where it seems nothing could go right. I hope you have also experience a time when you seemed to be “on,” maybe upon meeting a new love or playing well in an game. Well you may be in more control than you thought. It is not a coincidence, that these events happened to be around each other. As you dig deeper you will see that there is no such thing as coincidences at all.
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In training managers on how to deal with “difficult” employees I would explain to them to remember that each and every person believes they are right in what they do. Think about it, if they did not know the difference between right and wrong they would be in a prision or a rubber room. That is what we lable irrational thought. However, it is only irrational to you the observer.

It is amazing what occurs when managers truly understand this concept. Instead of getting mad and maybe exploding on an employee, they start having empathy and try to really understand what made the employee’s work under par. They actually try to solve the problem. It is also amazing what happens with the employee. Instead of thinking that “the boss is always picking on me” they really begin to admire their boss and their morale and productivity rises.
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